He was easy to talk too. Someone, I could come home too. Come home from a long day and talk about everything. He carried a charm about him, that I found myself enamored by things he would say. Every minute became easier to be around him.
Could he really be this charming? Or is it all the drinks I am consuming?
I didn’t love him. Maybe, if anything, I had tiny feelings for him. At this point, who don’t I have feelings for. I would have feelings for a lamp post, because it gave me light. But thats just who I am. I love people only to disappoint them in the end. If anything he just made me feel safe. Like I could be honest about everything without judgement. Some part of him would be familiar, as if I had felt these sentiments before. I just couldn’t pinpoint where.
“Stop looking at your phone. Everything you need is right here”
He didn’t mean it condescendingly. Some parts of it is a corny drunken slur. And yet, I believed him.
I don’t want to go home. As dark as it was at the Bar, I could have stayed here for hours. Maybe I did, I can’t remember. I found myself drinking this ache in my chest away. With every sip, I will cut you out of my heart.
Maybe not tonight.
Tonight, let’s just think of something else. Anything else.
With every sip of his beer, his words would slur into something more meaningful then the next.
I didn’t buy it at the time. At the time, I couldn’t think of anyone else but someone else. Someone I should have left in the dust of my memories. Someone I should never have brought with me in my new life here. The same person that made me check my phone dozens of times, instead of realizing “everything you need is right here”.
“That’s not what you’re looking for”
“What am I looking for then?”
I could have kissed him right there. In my drunken haze, in this dimly lit bar. I could have.
But I didn’t.
No amount of drinks will rid the person that hurt you out of your heart. No matter how many boys you kiss, its not going to take the taste of his lips away. No matter how many times I cut myself, its never going to get him out from under my skin.
I feel stupid drowning out my sadness with someone else, thinking about someone else.
Everything I need is right here.
And I know better now.
Burbank, CA 2009